I'm ideally looking for someone older than myself, someone experienced in life and who would be happy with meeting up in the car or phone calls at night / night meets. If they're looking for discreet that's fine too.

I'm really interested in the natural world. I also love gardening. You don't have to like either of those things, but my life is pretty mundane due to my agoraphobia so I'd love to meet someone who have a life that's the opposite. I think working in the emergency services is really cool and could sit for hours listening to stories someone might have about their work. I watched a show today about the RNLI and really admired the work they do, I reckon if I didn't have agoraphobia I'd have worked in the emergency services or something like that, so it'd be nice to be able to live vicariously through someone else who can uphold that sort of career. It might also sound strange to some, but I'd probably prefer someone who has a career that involves working at unsocial hours because I'm a night owl myself.

I had a pretty lonely Christmas to be honest, but I think that loneliness would go away if I had at least one good person in my life. I'm only on a website like this because I can't meet people through conventional avenues. I don't really leave the house much so rarely come into contact with new people. I'm shy at first, but despite this I'm very articulate and actually really love chatting, especially late night phone calls. It's just a matter of finding someone I feel safe with and who enjoys my company.