What Your Kissing Style Says About You

From tongues to quick pecks, there are plenty of ways to show your passion. But what does your go-to kissing style say about you? You’d be surprised at how much you can learn about someone from a kiss…

To celebrate International Kissing Day (6th of July), we’re delving into the main kissing styles and what they reveal about your personality. We’ll also share some saucy kissing games for couples so you can celebrate Kissing Day with a few memorable smooches.

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Kiss and tell: What the top five kissing styles reveal about your personality

Even though most people swear they don’t judge based on first impressions, it’s tough not to make assumptions about a first kiss.

Kissing is intimate. It tells your partner things you wouldn’t say out loud. So, it’s good to know what you’re saying while you’re snogging.

Here are the five main kissing styles and the secrets they reveal:

1. Closed-mouth kissing

First on the list is closed-mouth kissing. This isn’t as wild as others on the list, but it’s not at all boring. Closed-mouth kissing is traditional. It’s all about going slow and savouring the moment rather than going all-in with tongues and neck kisses.

You might be more of a romantic if you’re a closed-mouth kisser. Perhaps you like to take it slow and build up the passion. Nothing’s hotter than keeping yourself restrained until the pressure finally boils over!

2. Open-mouth kissing

Open-mouth kissing, tongue kissing, or French kissing is all about pleasure. If this is your go-to kissing style, you’re not afraid to indulge and enjoy life’s delights.

Jumping into open-mouthed kissing straight away with a new partner tells them that you’re into them and not afraid to show it. For more reserved partners, this might take them aback. However, go slow, follow their boundaries, and soon, they’ll be enjoying the lush life with you.

3. Biters

Biting is like Marmite – you either love it or hate it. To some, a raunchy lip bite is the ultimate turn-on. However, for others, a lip nibble is a worst nightmare.

If you enjoy biting (or receiving bites), you might be more in tune with your sexual desires. You’re not afraid to embody your passion and show your lover how much you want them. You may also have more alternative tastes and enjoy a bit of BDSM from time to time!

4. Eyes-closed kissers

Do you squeeze your eyes shut as soon as your partner leans in? You’re not the only one. Most people instinctively close their eyes when they kiss – but do you know why?

If you naturally shut your eyes when you kiss, it’s because your brain wants to shut off extra senses so you can focus on the pleasure of kissing. That’s right. Our bodies do this so we can enjoy the physical sensation of smooching.

So, if you’re an eyes-closed kisser, you’re probably a big fan of physical touch. In fact, your love language might even be physical touch. Don’t hold back on the heavy petting!

5. Open-eye kissers

Kissing with your eyes open is rarer than closed-eye kissing. However, it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong! Often, your partner won’t even notice this is your kissing style, as their eyes will likely be closed.

So, what does this say about you? Open-eye kissing might signal that you’re a very visual person. You like to see the experience and might become extra aroused by the sight of your partner enjoying the kiss.

If this sounds accurate, consider making the most of your visual nature. Keep the lights on during intimate moments so you can really immerse yourself in the moment – with your partner’s consent, of course.

Kissing games for couples

Whether you’re trying to spice up the bedroom or want to celebrate International Kissing Day, we’re here to help. Here are some flirtatious kissing games you might want to try on July 6th.

Guess the flavour

The first kissing game on our list is ‘Guess the flavour’. This is one for those who enjoy kissing and lip glosses. If make-up isn’t your favourite thing, scroll on!

The premise of this game is to buy a few flavoured lip balms, glosses, or oils, place them on your lips one by one, and ask your partner to guess the taste of each. Rather than your usual kissing routine, this game allows you to engage with different senses and kissing styles. Perfect if you’re keen on experimenting with open-mouthed kissing or more tongue action!

Stop and go

Calling all readers who want to learn how to build sexy anticipation in the bedroom. Stop and go is the game you need to add to your evening rotation.

This game begins with a deep French kiss. Don’t hold back. However, either partner can say ‘stop’ at any point. Once someone says ‘stop’, you both freeze until they say go again. You can leave these pauses as long or as short as you want. The aim is to build up emotional and physical tension until you’re both ready to surrender to passion. Whew.

3. Pick a part

Forget classic mouth kisses. Pick a part is a straightforward game that travels further than the lips!

Each partner takes turns saying where they want to kiss the other or where they want to be kissed. But the catch is you can’t repeat the same place twice. This tends to start with chaste lip kisses and leads to experimental smooches. There aren’t any limits, so follow your desire and embrace x-rated kissing styles.

You’ll want to lock the door before playing this sexy game.

The takeaway

Hopefully, this blog has helped you learn something about yourself or your partner. Make sure you mark International Kissing Day in your calendar – it’s an annual holiday you don’t want to miss. Bookmark this blog or send it to your friends to find out their kissing styles. Or don’t! It’s all up to you.