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In this article, we’re answering all of your questions about sex on the beach. From the legalities to the practical logistics, you’ll be ready to hit the coast like a pro in minutes.
Keep reading to learn more.
Is sex on the beach legal?
Sex on the beach might sound like a good idea, but it’s not so romantic if you get caught. In some parts of the world, nudity in public is illegal, and if you’re caught having sex, you could be in big trouble – we’re talking jail time in some countries.
But what about the UK? If the weather is pleasant enough for you to bear it all, you can have sex on the beach. But not when anyone else is there.
According to the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and the BBC, sex on the beach is legal so long as it’s consensual and in an isolated space. Privacy is critical here. Even if there’s only one other person on the coast, you should hold off until they’re gone. Otherwise, you might be reported for public indecency.
If you’re abroad you should always check local laws. Getting these wrong could result in a nasty end to your holiday.
Only go for it if no one’s around. It’s also a good idea to save sexual activity and consensual exhibitionism until it’s dark. And if you’re unsure, it’s best to hold back.
What about nude beaches?
At first, a nude beach might sound like the perfect place for some beach sex. However, nude beaches aren’t places for orgies. They’re actually stricter on sexual misconduct than quiet coves.
Nude beaches are founded on respect and not treating naked bathers like sexual objects. They’re a place to enjoy nature in your birthday suit and get an even tan. Don’t strip off and start shagging here!
7 practical tips for having sex on the beach
Now the not-so-fun question is out of the way, let’s get down and dirty. Here are seven tips you can use to have a summer romp you’ll never forget:
1. Bring a blanket or towel
No matter how careful you are, sand will get everywhere – yes, even down there!
However, you can lessen the discomfort with a towel or blanket. Having sex on top of one will be more comfortable, and you’ll find less sand in your underwear afterwards. You’ll thank yourself for beginning one, we promise.
2. Don’t forget protection
Alongside a towel, make sure you bring a bag with condoms, lube, and any other add-ons you might use.
Arriving with a box of sex goodies might take the spontaneous fun out of a sandy romp for some. But safe sex is essential, and lube always makes things more comfortable.
Why go without?
3. Don’t leave a mess
If you do choose to use condoms, be courteous and clear up after yourselves.
Firstly, leaving plastic at the beach is awful for the environment. Secondly, nothing will ruin a family day at the beach more than kids stumbling upon a condom.
Do the right thing and take your litter home.
4. Know which positions work best
Depending on when and where you have beach sex, there might be a bit of urgency about the situation. After all, you don’t want to get caught!
Knowing which sex positions you prefer and which work best for the situation can help you get your rocks off quicker.
Popular positions for beach sex include Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl when you have a towel to lay on. Missionary is also a classic option, but you can try spooning instead if you want to do something a little different.
5. Look for hidden spots
Bearing it all on the main stretch of the beach isn’t always a great idea. Instead, look for hidden coves, quiet corners of sand, or covered shrubbery so you can get freaky without being seen.
Just note that having sex in the foliage might not be the most comfortable. Only one type of bush is welcome in this sexy scenario!
6. Consider your clothes
What will you wear for your summer romance moment?
A detailed lace bodysuit might seem sensual, but when you’re fumbling in the dark, you want clothes you can easily take on and off.
Swimsuits are great for sex on the beach. Likewise, dresses and loose clothing can also provide easy access.
7. Talk about boundaries
Sex on the beach is a step above sex in private. Make sure you have an honest conversation about boundaries, expectations, and consent before you make any sexual advances.
Both partners must be into the idea, and it’s best to avoid a beachside romp if you’ve had a few cocktails.
If either partner decides it’s not for them, you should stop your actions. Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Can you have sex in the sea?
Having sex in the sea is possible, but it’s even trickier to organise than sex on the beach. You have to navigate the waves, not get caught, and ensure no one takes your belongings while in the water.
No-nos for sea sex include:
- Exposing yourself in view of others
- Getting in the sea during rough waves
- Combining alcoholic drinks and sea sex
- Not being able to swim
Ultimately, the best way to have sea sex is to swim until the water is chest or neck height. You can then embrace in a “hugging” position and enjoy the waves.
The takeaway
Getting down and dirty in the sand is a bucket list item for many. But to ensure a good time, you must prepare well and have an honest conversation about the practical details.
We hope this guide has given you some tips and tricks you can take on holiday with you. Suitcases at the ready!
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