Is your sex life stuck in a rut? Routine sex although not bad, can become unexciting after a while. If you’re looking to try new things to spice up your sex life, then you may want to consider introducing sex games to the mix
Indulging in adult sex games gives you the chance to have some competitive fun with your partner, while adding some excitement to bedroom antics.
Sex games are also the perfect way to innovate new foreplay ideas, and can help you get even more in the mood for the big show.
Ready to amp things up between you and your partner? Whether you live together or not, we’ve compiled a list of the best physical and online sex games for couples.
Here are some of the best sex games guaranteed to drive you both wild.
Erotic dice games
Required items:
- Dice (optional)
- Erotic data
How to play:
Easily found in sex shops and various stores, sex dice games are great for sexual stimulation.
While there are several options to choose from, the most common sex dice games involve a pair of dice with one featuring images of different sex positions, and the other specific locations such as the floor, a room or on a table.
When the dice has been rolled, you and your partner will be required to indulge in sexual intercourse in the exact same sex position and location that shows up on the dice.
Some other versions of the game may involve striptease, Kama Sutra positions, sexual acts on specific areas of the body, or choosing who will be the master that decides what the other party will do.
It is also possible to find erotic dice game apps such as Sexy Dice, in which you are required to shake or touch the screen to roll the dice and action what the dice displays. On this specific app, the first dice proposes an action, the second a body part, and finally the last one proposes a bonus. Once the dice are rolled, a countdown starts to determine the duration of the action.
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Questions & answers
Required items:
- Paper and pen (if you want to write it down)
How to play:
This is a great way to learn a little more about your partner. In this game, you will both establish a set of questions to ask each other, but you must provide sincere answers.
This game isn’t just for new couples. Even those who have been together for a while can discover new things about their partner with a variety of exciting questions. Here are some examples:
- What do you like to hear most during sex?
- What would you like to try that we have never done in bed?
- Is there a secret fetish you have that I don’t know about?
You could even make the game more exciting by writing down what you think your partner’s answer will be. Just make sure they write down the answer before you so there’s no cheating.
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Strip poker
Required items:
- Deck of cards
- Chips (optional)
How to play:
Do you love card games?
Strip poker is very simple: a poker game in which whoever loses each round must remove a piece of their clothing.
Replacing chips with attire is what brings a hilarious yet naughty twist to this home-game.
To help you relax and get in the mood, it is essential to make sure that you are both comfortable with the idea of seeing each other’s naked body. Also, keeping the atmosphere light and entertaining can make this game seem less daunting.
If you’re prepared to get down to your underwear, get the ball rolling and see where this game leads to.
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Treasure hunt
Required items:
- Paper
- Pen
- Erotic toys
How to play:
If you have sex toys and accessories, use these to create a fun treasure hunt around the house.
The hunter must be given tips and clues to help them find these orgasmic props.
When they have been discovered, you can use these toys for a thrilling sexual experience, whether it be there and then or later.
If possible, try to surprise your partner, perhaps by buying a new erotic toy that will have them feeling curious.
You can even hide them in the places you’ve always desired to have anal or oral sex with your partner.
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Erotic tales
Suggested items:
- Characterisation fantasies or articles
How to play:
More light-hearted but just as exciting as the previous sex games, telling erotic tales to each other is a fantastic way to get aroused.
You can tell stories that already exist, whether they are your own or somebody else’s, or you can even improvise your own stories, whereby the characters are you and your partner..
Every detail of the story can make a difference when it comes to building excitement, so don’t skip parts to get to the end quickly. The trick is to stay calm and don’t be shy, any awkward moments are likely to end up in laughter.
In this game, it is also worth thinking about staging or even characterising yourself to make the story a little more spicy.
If you have a more provocative fantasy or one that excites your partner, such as role-play attire or dominating your partner like in BDSM sex, this is the best time to use it.
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Mirror set
Required items:
- Just your body
How to play:
Stimulating almost all the senses, the mirror game can make you even more orgasmic.
Here, you will demonstrate to your partner the main erogenous zones that make your body tick, and how you like them to be stimulated.
When sitting naked in front of each other, each partner will have their turn to show what part of the body can excite and what they want the other person to caress. This can involve sensual touch or even go as far as masturbation.
Use your hands, mouth and any other part of the body that you want.
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For those couples who do not live together or cannot meet up for any reason, there’s no need to miss out. There are plenty of options for virtual couples. Here are some of the best online sex games below.
Truth or Dare
Required items:
- Smartphone
- “Truth or Dare” app
How to play:
Who doesn’t know the classic “Truth or Dare” game. For those that have missed out, you or your partner will have the chance to answer a question truthfully or perform a dare, of which must be decided by the other player.
With technology, even that game has been transformed. Now there is an app that does just that, and although it’s valid for topics outside of sex, it can pose some thrilling or compromising questions and actions.
So, how about playing this online sex game to make the distance just a little more closer between you and the other person. This can also be played in person too.
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Sexting
Required items:
- Smartphone
How to play:
Another form of phone sex, sexting can be considered a sex game, as it involves sexy flirtatious fun. With so many apps available in which we can send messages, such as WhatsApp, Messenger, Telegram and Instagram, sexting (or erotic messages) is an easy way to stay connected and keep your lust high.
Before you do this, avoid exposing yourself and putting yourself and your partner at risk by using the privacy features available in the apps, such as the Private Stories available on Instagram.
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Nujj
Required items:
- Smartphone
- “Nujj” application
How to play:
The Nujj is a messaging application that works like a game and has only one contact, which is your partner.
Created especially for couples to interact, send messages, exchange images, and schedule future meetings, the application is available for Android and iOS.
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Desire – Couple Games
Required items:
- Smartphone
- “Desire – Couple Games” app
This is a fun app for couples who want to challenge their creativity while increasing the intimacy between them, whether they are in a long-term relationship or just getting to know each other.
It mixes a few questions and answers specific to couples, truth or dare, in addition to having space to earn points in the game and a dedicated chat area.
This interactive sex game creates an ideal environment for the two of you to be alone and be focused solely on each other.
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Play a sex game today
The sex games above are just some recommendations for couples looking to bring some fun to the bedroom.
As we all have different sexual desires, feel free to mix ideas and rules or even create your own sex game out of the ideas above.
Remember that these games can also be played with more than two people, by those who are not in a relationship, and with friends.
As long as all parties agree, sex games can and should be a thrilling alternative to diversify your sexual experience.
With these sex games, everyone’s a winner.
