When it comes to services offered by sex workers, there are as many different sorts as there are clients that use them, and the Porn Star Experience is just one of them.
- What is the Porn Star Experience?
- Common misconceptions about the PSE
- How the Porn Star Experience differs from traditional escort services
- When should you opt for the Porn Star Experience?
- How do I prepare for my Porn Star Experience?
- How do I find escorts who will offer a PSE?
Read on for the ins and outs of this specialised service.
What is the Porn Star Experience?
In a nutshell, the PSE is the chance to re-enact a scene or scenes from a porn film.
It could be a scene from your favourite film or one that’s come from your imagination. Either way, it gives you the opportunity to star in your own fantasy.
What service is offered through the PSE?
The Porn Star Experience can be thought of as sex under a magnifying glass. Everything is bigger, louder, and messier than in “real life” because, let’s face it, the appeal of adult movies is that they are outside the boundaries of normal sex life.
That’s not to say that couples can’t enjoy kink and porn-type sex in their relationship, but the appeal of the PSE is that it provides and fulfils a person’s fantasy.
The Porn Star Experience – as long as you clearly discuss and agree on things with the escort prior to the session – could include most activities seen in adult movies.
Golden showers, anal sex, bondage, submission, domination, talking dirty, and pretty much any other part of sex that someone might want to try – but either isn’t comfortable doing it with their partner or wants to experience what they see on their screens – are possible.
Sometimes it might not be extreme at all, at least not by industry standards. Maybe a man might feel that ejaculating on his partner’s face is degrading but really wants to try it out, or perhaps his partner enjoys vanilla sex, but he wants to branch out a little every now and again.
Whatever the reason, the Porn Star Experience is there to satisfy a need in a safe and controlled way.
Common misconceptions about the PSE
Just because the PSE offers a no-holds-barred sexual experience, it does not mean that the escort offering the service does not have rules and regulations that need to be followed.
Here we look at some of the myths surrounding this experience:
- You don’t need to use a condom. Many people believe that the PSE means that they can engage in unprotected sex. This is overwhelmingly wrong. Just because the actors in an adult movie don’t use one doesn’t mean that an escort won’t. In fact, it is very rare indeed to find a professional escort who offers this service. Condoms protect both the escort and the client and should not be left off
- You’re hiring a real porn actor. A PSE is about recreating scenes from a movie, it does not mean hiring the actual actors who starred in it
- The client can do what they want. Absolutely not. You cannot disrespect an escort just because the actor looks like they are being disrespected in your favourite film. Escorts have the same right to respect and boundaries as anyone else, and if they say no to something you suggest, don’t do it. Porn films are scripted, and everything that takes place does so with the consent of all involved. The same should apply to PSEs
- All escorts offer the Porn Star Experience. Just like any other professional, escorts set their own services, and not all of them will offer the PSE. Don’t assume that the escort you booked will offer it. In addition, the PSE calls for a lot of trust, so many escorts will only offer it to a client they know and are comfortable with
How the Porn Star Experience differs from traditional escort services
The Porn Star Experience is a very specific service. However, some people might confuse it with traditional escort services, which are something completely different.
When you book an escort, you are paying for their time. That could be to sit and talk, it could be to go to a function, or it could be for sex.
Some will assume the role of girlfriend for an evening, so the client doesn’t have to go to dinner alone. Others might be hired to provide a sensual massage, with or without sexual activities.
If sex is on the cards, you will need to agree on specifics beforehand, otherwise, it will be just that – sex, with nothing out of the ordinary.
What’s the difference between the PSE and the GFE?
The clue to this question is in the name. With the former, clients get to live out their porn film fantasies in a one-off session, while the GFE (Girlfriend Experience) provides a client with a girlfriend – even long-term – who they just happen to pay for.
The Girlfriend Experience can be a long-term contract, with the escort providing all the companionship, intimacy, attention, and comfort a romantic relationship would bring, although it does not usually include exclusivity, and the escort is free to see other clients.
The Girlfriend Experience will usually involve dates, dinners, and sometimes even holidays, for those who, for whatever reason, cannot or might not want to commit to a “real” relationship.
When should you opt for the Porn Star Experience?
Choosing a Porn Star Experience is the ideal way to live out a fantasy without having to live the lifestyle all the time. Many people enjoy a perfectly “normal” sex life with their partners, but once in a while, they might crave something out of the ordinary and kinkier than their partner can provide.
It could be that they want one thing from their partner and something different from an escort.
The Porn Star Experience is the perfect way to scratch that itch without risking offending a partner or opening a Pandora’s Box that they might not be able to close.
The PSE is a temporary, (usually) one-off experience, so it has no impact on day-to-day life.
Choosing a PSE is a great way to indulge fantasies, and whether it’s done between relationships or with a partner’s consent is a personal choice. It can even be a useful way to get rid of frustrations and urges that could threaten a relationship if they build up.
How do I prepare for my Porn Star Experience?
Booking a PSE is just like booking any other type of escort service, and there are a few rules to follow.
Do your research
Take your time choosing your escort. Look for one that not only fits your criteria looks-wise but who will also offer the type of service you want.
Not all escorts, even those who offer the PSE, will allow oral sex, for example, so if that is important to you, make sure it’s something they offer. Do not, under any circumstances, try to force them to do something that they are clearly not happy to offer.
Payment types
Familiarise yourself with their payment preferences.
A PSE is a business transaction like any other, so make sure you know their payment method, how much they charge, and at what point they require payment, and abide by it.
Expect a “normal” session first
Understand if they want to meet you beforehand to build up a little trust. The PSE makes them vulnerable, and most escorts won’t offer this service to a complete stranger.
Prepare to book a “normal” session in advance to ensure they feel at ease. Trust us, the more comfortable they feel with you, the better the experience will be.
Protection
Bring, or at least be prepared to wear, a condom. Yes, porn movies show actors not using one, but this is real life, and you will want to use protection for yourself, and the escort will want to be protected, too.
Neither of you knows anything about the other, so wearing a condom is common sense and usually a pre-requisite for any kind of escort service, including the Porn Star Experience.
Read reviews
If the escort of your choice has reviews, read them. Like in any relationship, not everyone will suit everyone else, and reading about other people’s experiences can help you make up your mind.
It might also give you an inkling of what they’ll accept and what they won’t before you even make contact.
Discuss expectations
And finally, sort out the details before you arrive for your appointment. They will, quite rightly, have boundaries as will you, so discuss beforehand how far things will go, and whether there are certain acts that they simply won’t entertain.
Not only will it ensure that your experience runs smoothly, but it will also show the escort that you respect them, and that will go a long way towards making sure the experience is a success.
How do I find escorts who will offer a PSE?
The easiest and safest way to find escorts who will offer the Porn Star Experience is to use a reputable site.
Vivastreet has an easy-to-use search facility that allows you to type in keywords, as well as your area, minimum and maximum rates, age etc. Type ‘Porn Star Experience’ or ‘PSE’ into the keyword box, and you will be automatically presented with a host of escorts, all willing to provide what you need.
Each Porn Star Experience will be different, and you can tailor it to suit your needs. Look through escort ads and take the time to find one who ticks all the boxes.
Paying for a PSE doesn’t come cheap (and neither should it), so you want it to live up to your fantasies, and doing your homework now will lead to a gratifying experience for you and a safe experience for the escort you hire.
If you’re ready to take the next step and find the ultimate Porn Star Experience, turn your fantasy into reality and hire a PSE escort today.
