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Talking about sex is enough to make plenty of Brits blush, so it’s no surprise that the conversation is still on the down low. Yet the government reported an increase in STIs over the last few years. More people are…

Did you know that astrology can affect your behaviour in the bedroom? The astrological identities might inform our sexual selves more than you’d expect. In this article, we’re breaking down the astrological signs and providing sex tips that suit each…

Travel can fuel your soul. But what happens when you’ve seen the sights and want to experience something a little different? Swinging and swinger parties are becoming more popular every year. However, you don’t have to limit yourself to your…

It’s time to put down your smartphone and pick up a book. National Book Lovers Day is celebrated every August 9th. It’s a time for readers to come together and share their love for books, reading, and all things literature.…

Orgasms feel good. But do you actually know why? To celebrate National Orgasm Day (31st July), we’re stripping orgasms back to the scientific basics. From how they work to their benefits, this is a tell-all guide about orgasms and what…

Whether you’re with a partner or flying solo, women often face more barriers to orgasm. From lack of biological knowledge to mental blocks, it’s no surprise that 20% of women claim they’ve never orgasmed, and a shocking 50% wish they…

Listen up! Do you know your BDSM ABCs? This BDSM Day, we’re learning exactly that and we will walk you through the A to Z of BDSM terms. Think of this article as your guide to the most common phrases…

Mark July 21st in your calendar. It’s a date you don’t want to forget! Wondering why? The 21st of July is International Handjob Day, and yes, that’s a real thing. The day is dedicated to celebrating the pleasure of the…

Have you ever thought of making a sex tape before? While it sounds spicy and taboo, it can be a great way to maintain that spark between you and your partner and build a new sense of intimacy. We live…

When was the last time you were in the buff? Was it on a nudist beach? Or in a nightmare? Being completely naked is a fear for most Brits. However, for International Nudity Day, July 14th, we’re looking at what…

From tongues to quick pecks, there are plenty of ways to show your passion. But what does your go-to kissing style say about you? You’d be surprised at how much you can learn about someone from a kiss… To celebrate…

You’re in the wrong place if you’re looking for a fruity cocktail recipe. However, if you’re interested in loving a new location or taking your summer fling to the next level, you might want to stick around. In this article,…

Whether you’re a seasoned Pride veteran or just starting your journey of discovery, this informative Pride alphabet is here to help you navigate the vibrant world of LGBTQ+ terminology. From Asexual to Ze/Hir, we’ve got you covered with everything you…

June 21st isn’t only the time of the summer solstice. It’s also World Kamasutra Day. Is there a better way to celebrate one of the longest days of the year than with your partner and a few new positions? Whether…

You’re on a first date. The sparks are flying, and you can’t stop blushing. But suddenly, they utter the dreaded words: “Do you want to get a pint?” Suddenly, you have to explain that, for whatever reason, alcohol isn’t your…

National Sex Day (June 9th) is one of the best days of the year. It’s a day all about recognising the importance of sex and pleasure. What else could you ask for? But this year, we’re flipping the script. Rather…

The five love languages are a big topic in the dating world. But can you really boil your feelings down into one box? Scientists and psychologists think yes! So, it’s time to learn how you best give and receive love.…

Welcome to our Pride Month Glossary, your comprehensive guide to understanding key terms and concepts within the LGBTQ+ community.  As we celebrate Pride Month, it’s essential to recognise the diversity and richness of the LGBTQ+ spectrum. This glossary aims to…

Losing your virginity is a major step in your life that can happen at any age. Some people lose it early; others lose it later in life. Either way, the entire experience can be tense, and there’s no shame in…

Looking to add a bit more spice to the bedroom? Whether you’re alone or with a partner, sex toys are a great way to add a new dimension of pleasure to your sexual experiences. But if you’ve never bought a…

When people discuss intimacy, physical closeness is the first thing that comes to mind. After all, being intimate with someone usually means being physically close and connected to each other. However, while the physical aspect of intimacy is obvious, it…

We all get stressed. You can’t avoid certain things happening in your life that can make things tough for you. While you can’t avoid stress, there’s no denying that it can majorly affect a person’s life. Stress can manifest itself…

Our mental well-being significantly influences our sexuality and has a major influence on our sexual relationships. This includes our desires and how we want them satisfied, which is why it’s critical for people to familiarise themselves with the intricate relationship…

Everybody’s sexual journey is unique. Each individual has their own experiences, desires, and dislikes when it comes to sex. But while some people have an easy time figuring out what works and what doesn’t for them, others aren’t as lucky.…

Studies show that six out of ten Americans have watched porn in their lifetime, and over 25% have watched it in the past month as of March 2024. So, there’s a pretty decent chance that either you or your partner…

After signing the divorce papers, getting down in the dark is likely the last thing on your mind. But as time passes, you might feel lighter and ready to open your life to someone new. There’s no right or wrong…

Want to rip the bandaid off and meet other singles in the same boat as you? Speed dating could be your next adventure. There are barely any cons to this unique dating strategy, but there are a few things to…

Zoom meetings and conference calls rarely feel sexy. So, what’s the buzz about virtual sexy parties? In this article, we’re looking at the latest trend of video-conferencing sex parties, what to expect from one, and how to get involved. What…

An avoidant attachment style can leave you without any close relationships. But are you truly happy after you’ve pushed your loved ones away? Today, we’re diving into what it means to be an avoidant attachment style. Whether you’re dating someone…

69 is one of those numbers we can’t help but giggle at. But do you know why this number has naughty connections? Today, we’re diving into everything you need to know about 69ing. From the basics to tips to bring…

Dating as someone with codependent tendencies can be extremely difficult, especially if you’re still working through your feelings and relationship style. However, if you do find yourself drawn to dating, approaching the topic prepared and confidently is critical. What is…

If you’ve ever taken a peep at your anatomy with a handheld mirror, you might have wondered whether your vagina is normal or not. In a society with immense pressure to look a certain way, worrying about your body is…

Tickling isn’t something we think of as sexy. But with the right mood and partner, it can be a game changer in the bedroom. Keep reading if you’ve ever wondered why tickling feels so good or whether your partner would…

From pineapples to sex parties, today we’re looking at all things swinging. Whether you’re in the know or not, keep reading. What is swinging? How does swinging work? Does swinging benefit your relationship? Swinging vs polyamory The benefits & drawbacks…

From going on three first dates a week to attending a singles party every month, dating goals are here to help you meet a beau. But how do they work? And do you really need to write a goal list?…

Have you ever come across the term “body count”? At first, it might be confusing, as we all only have one body. You can’t have two (right?). However, body count refers to something entirely different – your sexual experience. In…

The first week of March welcomes National Threesome Day, and for many couples, this means opening their minds and exploring new sexual experiences. While there are countless articles about how to navigate a threesome as a couple, there aren’t too…

March 3rd is National Threesome Day, and that means there’s a fair amount of couples around looking to expand their sexual experiences and try bringing a third person into the bedroom. But while this idea may sound spicy and fun,…

If you’re experiencing a low sex drive after starting antidepressants, you’re not alone. This is a common side effect, and multiple ways exist to navigate the issue. So, scroll down to learn more about this problem and what you can…

Our bodies go through many natural changes as we age. One of the biggest changes that people with a uterus undergo is menopause when they stop menstruating and lose the ability to get pregnant. For many people, this can sound…

Dark rooms are becoming a popular add-on to a night out. But they’re nothing new. These saucy spaces have been in queer spaces for decades. What is a dark room? Who can enter a dark room? Consent and etiquette in…

If your sex life has slowly diminished, you might have found yourself searching for “dead bedroom cures”. However, fixing a lack of intimacy isn’t so simple. Couples should approach the issue with patience and understanding, and today, we’re going to…

The day has finally arrived. Tonight, you’re going to your first sex party. But what on Earth should you expect from the evening? How to prepare for a sex party What to do when you arrive at a sex party…

Exploring kinks with your partner can be quite a challenge. If you haven’t explored each other’s sexual desires, spicing up things in the bedroom can become really tricky. However, transitioning from a vanilla sex life to a kinky one isn’t…

Is 2024 the year you’ll find your true love? Or will you be swiping for hours without results? Whether you love or hate it, dating is a fact of life. Like clothes and films, dating also sees yearly trends, and…

Furries are a divisive topic. You either know and understand the subculture, or you’ve heard rumours and misconceptions. Either way, you likely have questions about this unique community. What are furries? What do furries do? Furries and sexual exploration How…

Have you ever fantasised about wearing a collar while playing with your partner? Collars are a hot accessory that can help you dip your toes into the BDSM world and allow you to show your complete submission to your partner.…

Like all things in the bedroom, lighting comes down to personal preference. However, if you haven’t tried sex with the lights on (or off), this is your sign to mix it up. How does lighting affect sex? Benefits and drawbacks…

Everyone approaches sex differently. We all have unique desires, kinks, and turn-offs that make the sexual journey a lot of fun. But while you’ve probably heard of or have experience with the common fetishes, there are probably quite a few…

Shower sex is usually better in your head than in real life. It always sounds great – having you and your partner explore each other while the shower warms you up. However, when you try it, you might find yourselves…

The shower is a great place to explore your kinks and sexual desires, whether you’re alone or with a partner. That said, many people view shower sex as something that’s more fun in theory than in practice. While this can…

Realising your contraception has failed or noticing your period is late are moments that make your heart stop in its tracks. A pregnancy scare can leave you feeling stuck. But it’s critical to know you have options and steps to…

If you’re getting ready for your first STI test, you might be nervous about the unknown – but you shouldn’t be. Though STI testing is a routine procedure, it’s barely spoken about and surrounded by myths. We want to set…

You can be as careful as possible, but there’s always the chance that birth control might fail. Perhaps you forgot your pill, or maybe the condom split. These things happen. Unprotected sex isn’t anything to be embarrassed about! What is…

You may recognise the word “demisexual”, but do you know what it means? In this blog, we’re celebrating demisexuality and raising awareness about everything it entails. From what being demisexual means to understanding whether you’re demisexual, we’re covering all the…

Can a pinch be pleasurable? The nipple clamp community thinks so, and guess what? You might, too! Nipple clamps are a small sex toy that often gets lost in the overall discussion but don’t overlook these little clamps. They can…

Polyamorous relationships are growing more popular by the day. But just like any type of relationship, some complications come with polyamory. In polyamorous relationships, it’s normal for one or multiple people to feel jealous and insecure. While some people believe…

Happy Polyamory Day! Though many people across the world are thriving in consensual polyamorous relationships, this relationship style is still surrounded by myths and misconceptions. To celebrate Polyamory Day (23rd November), we want to use our voice to educate our…

Did the title catch your eye? Sex during pregnancy is a question many are afraid to ask. It’s also a topic surrounded by myths and misconceptions. Can you have sex while pregnant? Sex in pregnancy: Changes in each trimester Potential…

If your eyes are drawn to the more mature dating app users, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Up to 8% of Western male-female couples have an age gap of 10 years or more, and this statistic is on the rise.…

What comes to your mind when you think of wintertime sex? Goosebumps and shivering? Or hot, sensual lovemaking? Hopefully, the latter comes to mind. But if it doesn’t, we’re here to help. In this article, you’ll find seven spicy tips…

Let’s talk about STIs. It’s not the most glamorous topic, but it’s an important one. Being informed and preventing STIs is the best way to keep yourself and your partner healthy, so don’t delay your STI education! What are STIs?…

Were you ever curious about the evolution of sex toys? Sex toys have been around for a long, long time. In fact, the earliest known suspected sex toy is a 28,000-year-old phallic object that doesn’t look that far off from…

You can find cock rings in every adult store and in the wellness section of some mainstream supermarkets and pharmacies. These small accessories are almost hidden in plain sight. But when it comes to sex toys and products, they don’t…

Do you need an emotional connection with your partner to achieve sexual satisfaction? Numerous studies show the importance of emotional intimacy in sexual satisfaction, which is why building intimacy and a strong emotional bond with your partner is crucial in…

Halloween is around the corner once again, and this year, it’s time to make it a holiday to remember. That’s right, today we’re looking at how you can “spook up” your sex life and take a break from your usual…

Do you want to play a game? Sometimes, sex lives get a bit repetitive. From doing the same positions to not wanting to leave your comfort zone, there’s a range of reasons your evening routine can go a bit stale.…

It might not be spoken about as much as other types of sex, but anal play is one of the nation’s secret favourites. Don’t believe us? Look at the anal section of your local sex shop. There are plenty of…

Sex is a part of most of our everyday lives. However, it isn’t the same for everyone. People with difficulties may want to approach sexuality differently. When fostering a relationship with someone with a medical or neurological condition, it’s important…

How well do you know your sex toys? From vibrators to dildos, the sex toy market is never-ending. No matter your preferences, there’s a toy out there to hit the right spot. However, navigating the vast number of options can…

So, you’ve swiped right, made a match, and now you’ve set an actual date. However, instead of feeling excited, you’re nervous and feel like you want to ghost your potential partner. Where are the butterflies and positive emotions? While this…

The internet is full of sexy stories and erotic content, but what happens when you strip back the visuals? Most can’t imagine pornography without the images, but there’s an excellent argument for audio porn, and it’s one of the fastest-growing…

Today, there are plenty of identities and terms to explore, allowing you to enjoy new experiences and delve deeper into your self-expression. But, if you’re new to the world of queer and LGBT sex and power dynamics, it’s difficult to…

When you see erotic fiction, what comes to mind? Do you imagine 50 Shades of Grey? Or does the term conjure cringe book covers filled with women in corsets being held by topless men? For a moment, forget any judgments…

Have you noticed you’ve been feeling hornier than usual? Perhaps you’ve been waking up ready to go. Or maybe you can’t get your last steamy session out of your head. If this sounds familiar, you might be experiencing a high…

You probably know what a condom is. But how much do you really know about this type of contraception? There’s a pretty open conversation around condoms these days, but some people are still squeamish about this form of contraception. However,…

On a scale from 1 to 10, how satisfied are you with your sex life? Reflecting on sex and pleasure is essential to being sexually active, but not one many of us actually embrace. Looking at your sex life and…

Sex is all about feeling good. So, when it doesn’t, it quickly raises alarm bells. But painful sex doesn’t just bring physical sensations. It can also leave women feeling ashamed and embarrassed, especially when needing to discuss the issue with…

Today, many sexual health educators stress the importance of a “healthy” sex life, but this term might seem a little vague if you’re new to the topic. What makes sex healthy? And isn’t everyone’s sex life different? Without a clear…

Seduction is more than simply swiping right. It’s all about desire, anticipation, connection, and making your lover feel special. Professional sex workers have honed the craft of seduction to perfection, making them masters of the art and the best people…

Discussing sex with your partner might be more important than you think. That’s right. No matter how long you’ve been with your beau, you should still take time to sit down and discuss your sex life. However, this isn’t always…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on all things kinks from the safety aspects to the importance of aftercare. Want recommendations on the best days, times and places to have sex? Read the previous Q&A…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on the best days, times and places to have sex, from the benefits of having sex at certain points in the week, to creative ways to change…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on sex education. From the benefits of sex ed to addressing misconceptions about sexual health, Gigi has it all. Want to learn more about sex work and…

What are your beliefs about sex, and where did you learn them? Many learn about sex and sexual relationships through friends, media, and society. However, have you ever stopped to question how true these beliefs are? You might have picked…

Almost everybody masturbates – it’s a natural part of our lives. And if it’s so enjoyable touching yourself alone, there must be tons of benefits to doing it together, right? This is called mutual masturbation, and it’s a great way…

Saturday is the most popular day for Brits to have sex  Brits are least likely to have sex on a Tuesday, with less than 6% choosing it as their favourite day to get frisky Sex at night is the overall…

Sexual activity is still shrouded in mystery. To many, sex work and sex, in general, are taboo topics. But we don’t believe it should be this way.  At Vivastreet, we’re all about sex positivity and aim to be open and…

The new year is in full swing, and what better way to welcome a new era than exploring your sexuality and trying out new sexual experiences? Sex is a major part of most people’s adult lives. But sometimes, we can…

If you’re interested in trying anal play, the first step is anal training. No, that’s not a euphemism; it’s actual prep work. Before you even think about penetration, you need to ensure your mind and body are on board with…

The world of porn is vast and varied. From vanilla sex to BDSM, all tastes are covered. Every fantasy imaginable is available, so what happens when you’re looking for something different? When you want to break the boundaries of the…

Many of us have burning fantasies and secret desires. From interest in bondage to a thirst for impact play, kink can elevate your sex life from good to great. But, if you don’t have anyone to share your kinky interests…

No one wants to go through one, and no one likes admitting that they’re going through it, but a dry spell is something that can happen to anyone at any time. And the thing is, rebooting your sex life is…

There are many ways for couples or individuals to explore BDSM. And one common type of kink that people incorporate in their BDSM play is sexual objectification. While it may sound unique to people who have never heard it, it…

You may already be familiar with subs and doms in the world of BDSM, but these categories actually come with a number of subsets within them. One of the most misunderstood labels under the umbrella of submissives are brats. The…

Needing to spice up your love life is a problem nearly all couples face. Life can get busy, stressful, and downright un-sexy, driving a wedge between you and your partner’s intimate life. But this shouldn’t be the end of your…

It’s no secret that many people enjoy the thrill of sexual denial. For some, it’s about denying themselves pleasure until the end. For others, it’s the teasing and torture that comes with denying someone else ultimate pleasure. But what if…

Are you feeling less interested in sex than usual? If so, you’re not alone. A low sex drive is a common problem and has many possible causes. Adults are constantly juggling a million things and it’s no wonder that our…

You probably know orgasms, but have you ever experienced a super orgasm? Today we’re talking all-things pompoir and super orgasms. Pompoir is an ancient practice that’s here to increase your sex life and orgasm intensity, and it teaches you how…

Erotic electrostimulation, or e-stim for short, is a sexual activity that involves stimulating the body with electrical currents. While it may appear intimidating or even dangerous, e-stim can be a fun and exciting way to add some new excitement to…

Ever caught yourself fantasising about gags? When you think of kink, a ball gag likely comes to mind. Like handcuffs and whips, gags are a famous symbol of kinky sex and BDSM. But do you have to be deep into…

Sex is a natural and important part of life, but keeping things interesting in the bedroom can be hard. Fortunately, there are plenty of tips and tricks to make sex better and longer lasting. Why do people have mediocre sex?…

Humiliation is a sensation that most people would typically describe as undesirable, and worth avoiding. However, when done safely, and in a sexual context, it can offer an incredibly intense and arousing experience. What is a humiliation kink? How to…

When was the last time you really treated yourself? To celebrate National Sex Toy Day, we’re talking all-things toys today. Sex toys are one of the most popular ways to spice up your sex life. Whether you’re flying solo or…

Orgasms are great, regardless of your sex, gender, and sexual orientation. And while men generally experience two types of orgasms, women have the pleasure of experiencing many types of orgasms. Why are there so many different types of female orgasms?…

Cumming is an essential part of sex. And while others would rather keep cum away from them, many people enjoy the feeling of cum on them. Some people enjoy swallowing it, playing with it in their mouth, or having it…

What is a spit kink, and why is it so hot? What is a spit kink? How to discuss spit play with your partner Is spit play safe? We’re getting into all of that and more in this article. If…

One sexual orientation that can leave many people confused is heteroflexibility. It may sound complicated, but it’s actually very easy to understand. What is heteroflexibility? A brief history of heteroflexibility What does heteroflexibility look like? How do I know if…

Words like dominant and submissive, bondage, discipline, sadism, and a few more might spring to mind when you consider BDSM. But on top of them, one of these is not as popular, yet very important in this world – the…

While the idea of playing with temperature may seem intimidating to some, adding a little heat (or cold) to your sex life can be a lot of fun. Erotically speaking, there are countless options to spice up or freeze, for…

Elevating your sex life doesn’t have a be a long, drawn-out process. Couples often find themselves looking for new sensations and kinks after some time. If you’re ready to step up your sex life but not ready to plunge into…

There’s something about wrestling that makes you feel… Alive. Maybe it’s the primal nature of two people battling for dominance, or perhaps it’s the rush of adrenaline as your bodies clash. What is erotic wrestling? Types of erotic wrestling How…

Have you ever seen someone in latex and been inexplicably turned on? Knowing where to start can be a little daunting as a beginner in the latex fetish community. What is a latex fetish? Different types of latex fetish How…

Fisting is an act that’s shrouded in mystery. You might think you know what it entails, but the reality might be very different. When completed safely and slowly, fisting can be a pleasurable experience. Forget the taboo surrounding the act.…

Most people nowadays associate the concept of hypnosis with scammers on TV who take advantage of susceptible individuals. But that isn’t what real hypnosis is. When done correctly, real hypnosis can be a great way to tap into a new…

At first glance, forced orgasms do not sound fun at all. After all, even if orgasms can be the best feeling, no one wants to be “forced” to do anything. But that isn’t what a forced orgasm is about. People…

Double penetration is a pretty well-known sex act that’s also largely misunderstood. While it seems like something that will only happen in porn or fantasies, it’s a pleasurable experience that you may want to try. What is double penetration? Trying…

TikTok trends tend to leave people divided. And while you might be used to seeing dance trends and weird challenges on the platform, there’s a new trend making waves, and it’s called vabbing. If you’ve never heard of it before,…

Have you ever discovered a new sexual desire? Exploring your kinks and fetishes can take your sex life to a whole new level. But you might miss out on some fulfilling fun if you don’t have anyone to explore with.…

When was the last time you felt cared for? DDLG relationships often take newcomers by surprise. With strong power structures and age play, this kink isn’t for everyone. However, DDLG relationships are likely more common than you expect. What is…

Finding a partner is tough, regardless of your sexual preferences. However, finding your other half when looking for a kinkster can be even tougher. Knowing where and how to find someone who shares your exciting desires is difficult in a…

Edgeplay is slowly gaining more and more attention, but do you know what this term actually refers to? Hint: it’s not edging. Living life on the edge is more appealing to some than others. In daily life, edge seekers might…

When you look in the mirror, how do you feel? If you feel depressed or sad, it might be time to address the issue. While we don’t always have to feel proud and in love with ourselves 24/7, low self-esteem…

Safewords are one of the most well-known components of BDSM. Although many people may believe that safewords are only necessary if you’re deep within the BDSM community, it’s actually a recommended practice for anyone engaging in sex with a partner…

Katoptronophilia is sexual arousal from having sex in front of a mirror or from the act of seeing oneself during sex. It’s a paraphilia, which is defined as “an atypical sexual interest characterised by intense and persistent sexual fantasies, urges,…

The female orgasm is a wonderful experience. Unlike guys, women and people with vulvas can experience multiple orgasms. There are clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms, and even U-spot orgasms, which some women report having. But did you know that you can…

It’s easy to get intimidated by a sex party, but they are usually very accepting environments where one can be their true selves. Picture a sex party. Pretty hard to do, isn’t it? Well, that’s because not many people are…

There’s no doubt that university is a time for exploration and new experiences, but when it comes to sex, some students can feel a bit apprehensive about getting creative in their uni room. What is safe sex? How to protect…

Dating expert Sarah Louise Ryan has partnered with Vivastreet to share her advice and answer your questions on all things dating and relationships. Have a comment for Sarah Louise? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: I always feel…

Sex can be complicated, but it can be even more complex for some women. It’s pretty common for them to feel “shy” and lack confidence in the bedroom, which can be frustrating since you want to be your truest self…

While it used to be an obscure and relatively unknown sex act, golden showers have recently become common knowledge for many people. Also called “water sports,” a golden shower is a sex act involving peeing. These showers can take many…

Everyone has their own unique sexual preferences. This ranges from the people they prefer having sex with and the kind of sex they have. And for many couples, a great way to spice things up in the bedroom is through…

For most people, nylon is just the material used for tights and stockings. But for some, nylon is a huge turn-on. In fact, nylon fetishes are a bit more common than you think, and it could actually be fun to…

Everyone wants to give their partner the best experience possible. And if you’re looking to treat your partner like royalty in the bedroom, you might want to try out “queening”, an empowering sex position that can bring pleasure and spice…

Rough play can be a lot of fun. It’s a new way to introduce intensity in the bedroom and can bring both parties a lot of pleasure. And if you’re thinking of exploring BDSM with your partner for the first…

Having traditional sexual activities or using the same old sex toys can make life banal and could eventually harm your relationship. This is exactly the reason why other kinds of sensual ideas came to life, and total power exchange is…

Praising someone for a job well done is a common act of kindness, but there’s something extra special about praising someone in the bedroom. While praise kinks have got increasingly more common recently, understanding them is still not straightforward, and…

It appears to be self-evident that what makes someone a fantastic sex partner is similar sexual experiences, the same amount of time, and someone who is eager to play with everything within reason. And you’ll easily attract someone like that…

Most of the time, people associate ejaculation with men. However, sex is a two-way street, and ejaculation isn’t just reserved for men. Women ejaculate too, and unlike men, it can happen before, during, and after the orgasm. Nowadays, we have…

Yes, you read that right: using a sex swing can improve your sex life in ways you never thought possible. From adding new positions to your repertoire to increasing the pleasure your partner experiences, a sex swing can be a…

When was the last time you enjoyed an intimate romp in a small location? If you have a taste for car sex or live in a smaller apartment, you’ll already be familiar with sex in small places. But don’t think…

Desire and fantasy come in all shapes and forms. There’s a world of sexual kinks to explore, from kinky role-playing scenarios to bondage. One kink that many are ashamed to explore is consensual non-consent, also known as CNC. This kink…

Spicing up your sex life is a great way to make sex more enjoyable, and it can bring you closer to your partner. If you’ve been looking for a way to get a bit kinkier in the bedroom, look no…

Nothing beats vacation sex. There’s something about being far from home that allows us to let loose and explore our desires. Whether you’re in a fancy hotel or enjoying some time in the great outdoors, there’s always time for a…

What rooms do you have in your house? Thanks to Netflix’s ‘How to Build a Sex Room’ documentary, everyone’s talking about these cheeky rooms. To many, sex rooms are a new concept. But happy couples have been enjoying these unique spaces…

For many people, a threesome is the ultimate sexual fantasy. But for some, it’s an awkward experience that can be confusing and embarrassing, especially the first time. And that is because most of us have never had sex with more…

Inappropriate. Immoral. Unbecoming. Those are just a few words you may have heard throughout your life describing sex. You may have even heard that the idea of simply talking about sex is pretty taboo. And that’s why you may not…

Do you know what transvestic fetishism is? This word might be unfamiliar to you, but you’ll probably know what cross-dressing is.  Transvestic fetishism typically refers to those who become aroused when dressed as the opposite sex. But, don’t mistake a…

Relationships are messy. When two people come together, and feelings are involved, situations can become complicated quickly. An element that makes relationships even more difficult is when a third party gets involved – especially if one party doesn’t realise it. …

Hands – we all have them, but some people are more attracted to hands than others. If you’ve discovered you have a hand kink, you’re not alone. Quirofilia, also known as a hand fetish, is more common than you might…

While anal play is a popular sexual preference, many don’t know about rimming or how to give the best rim job. Sadly, many are still in the dark about this common act, and the internet lacks reliable information on the…

BDSM, while an exciting topic, is also pretty misunderstood. The latest studies show that almost half of the general population has participated in BDSM. Still, not everyone fully grasps the concept, even when trying it out themselves. But when experimenting…

There’s a high chance you’re going exploring this summer. After two years of staying home, people are grasping at every opportunity they have to go on an adventure. And for many people, this means going into the outdoors and exploring…

Are you stuck in the dull routine of bedroom sex? Fear not – there are plenty of other places to get it on. There are several benefits of sex outside the bedroom, and you may be surprised at how much…

The “B” in BDSM is arguably the most famous letter. It stands for bondage and involves tying your partner up and restraining them in a sexual context. And while many people know about bondage, not a lot of people know…

Anyone who says sex is boring has clearly never explored their kinks and fetishes. Whether you like to get tied up, spanked, or role-play as your favourite character, exploring your sexual desires can be a fun and exciting way to…

Nipples are often neglected during sex, but they can be a powerful tool for sexual pleasure. In fact, they are a sexually sensitive area and can provide fun and even give an orgasm using only your tongue or toys. If…

There are a lot of factors to fingering someone or yourself that can make it feel terrific. Some people focus on the number of fingers used, while others focus on the techniques – after all, we are all different, and…

When it comes to sex, everyone is different. Some people like things soft and slow, while others prefer it a little rougher and wilder. But one thing that almost everyone can agree on is that lubricants make everything better. What…

A tit wank is an act of placing your partner’s penis between your breasts and thrusting back and forth.  Some men find it to be one of the most pleasurable ways to masturbate. If your man is interested in trying…

When you think of sexual fetishes, what comes to mind? Maybe Bondage and Discipline (BDSM), role-playing, or pegging? While all of those are undoubtedly kinky activities that some people enjoy, there’s one fetish that might surprise you: cuckolding.  Cuckolding is…

There’s no denial that JOI porn popularity has constantly been increasing, and we can easily understand why. JOI porn is a niche genre of pornography in which the performer, often a woman, provides explicit instructions to the viewer on how…

Many people believe that period sex is messy and taboo, but it doesn’t have to be. Some find it exciting, and there are plenty of reasons to give period sex a try.  For starters, orgasms can help to relieve cramps…

Small penis humiliation is, essentially, the consensual act of one person verbally humiliating the other about the size of his penis, although the practice can include some consensual physical acts of ‘torture’ as punishment for the lack of size.  Unless…

Cunnilingus is one of the most enjoyable activities you can experience, and if done correctly, it can lead to gratifying orgasms.  Unfortunately, many people don’t know how to do it right. In this blog post, we will teach you the…

Female domination is a term used to describe a sexual relationship or practice in which a woman takes control of her partner.  This can involve physical domination, such as slapping or spanking, or psychological domination, such as verbal humiliation or…

The next time your partner asks you to go down on them, they could want you to go much further south than you think. What is toe sucking? As its name implies, toe sucking is the practice of sucking toes.…

They say there are two types of women in the world – those who masturbate, and those who lie – and while that’s a harsh and untrue depiction of womankind, it does raise a question about just how many women…

Sex toys have become incredibly popular over the years, and endless couples and groups use dildos, vibrators, or anal toys to spice up their intimate moments. Coupled with the popularity of sex toys is the importance of hygiene. In fact,…

Most often adopted as the go-to position for cosy Sunday morning sex, spooning is far more than the no-effort method known and loved by lazy lovers. In this article, we explore just how this low-maintenance mating can be upgraded to…

We might have a slight tendency towards OCD, but we decided to think outside the box and investigate the world of sploshing. To our surprise, we found the thought of the mess and chaos didn’t faze us all. What is…

According to a poll in The Independent Newspaper, vanilla is by far the UK’s favourite flavour of ice cream. But why do connoisseurs of the cone own up to that fact, when saying the same for sex has us squirming…

Did you know that less than 30% of couples are having sex at least once a week? It’s no secret that as relationships progress, the sex can go from steamy to stale and your love life can become a little…

While the name ‘rainbow kiss’ might conjure up images of unicorns, candy, and rainbows, when it comes to sex it’s a whole different ball game. What is a rainbow kiss? A rainbow kiss involves two people performing oral sex on…

There are all sorts of different fetishes out there – from the more popular ones like feet or latex to the more obscure, like body and pubic hair or flatulence and messy play. And while some people might not understand…

Sex is a wonderful part of any relationship, bringing you and your partner closer together. It also provides immense pleasure, which can lead to orgasm.  However, according to a recent study, over half of the women surveyed admitted to regularly…

Did you know that 95% percent of men report having orgasms during sex compared to only 65% percent of women?  Since men tend to have orgasms more easily, this means many women often feel disappointed when they don’t get the…

According to research, a popular fantasy for roleplay sex is when both partners pretend to be strangers. The roleplay ideas are endless and for that reason, there’s nothing stopping you and your partner from playing the part of a teacher,…

Perhaps unsurprisingly, a recent study found that more than half of all adults in the UK watch porn. What people don’t know is that porn is actually a type of voyeurism and it is also one of the most popular…

Like most things, when it comes to getting aroused, everyone differs. Although getting some guys hot under the collar can be relatively easy, some guys are harder to turn on. If your man has been under a lot of stress…

Fun fact: The words “sadism” and “masochism” first came about in 1886. While those terms are relatively new, the enjoyment of sadism, masochism, and BDSM (short for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) has likely been around since the beginning of…

Have you ever had a one-night stand? More importantly, do you know how to have a “great” one-night stand? If you know how to have a great one-night stand, it will be easier to develop deep connections and have amazing…

You’d expect that a lockdown would vastly improve people’s love lives. After all, having all day to roll around in bed with one another sounds ideal, right? Yet, 66% of those aged 18-24 said their sex lives declined in 2020.…

Did you know that the head of the penis alone has more than 4,000 nerve endings? This is not counting the nerve endings in the shaft and, of course, in the balls.  The scrotum actually has many more nerve endings…

Brits’ favourite sex position and the most tried in the bedroom is…Doggy Style  More than a third of women say their partners initiate a new sex position 69 is the sex position women most want to try, while anal sex…

If erotic spanking turns you on, then you’re not alone. Thanks to the popularity of works of art like 50 Shades of Grey, spanking is considered to be a great place to start for BDSM beginners.  Our sexual fetishes research…

In the UK, pornography is prevalent, and viewership has further grown in popularity over the last two years since the pandemic. According to a report by Ofcom, 26 million people – half of the adult population viewed adult material in…

1 in 3 Brits are having less sex compared to 2018 (pre-pandemic) A third say it’s harder to build physical connections 59% of people ‘worry’ about casual dating post-lockdown 1 in 3 people admit to masturbating MORE than TWICE as…

Morning sex. For some, it’s a no-no. While for others, it gets their morning kick-started. For those who are #TeamMorningSex, you may be surprised. A survey by Superdrug, which comprised of 2,000 Brits, discovered that the desire to have evening…

Intercrural sex, otherwise known as thigh sex, interfemoris, and interfemoral sex, is non-penetrative sex in which a man’s penis is situated between their partner’s thighs and thrusts repeatedly to achieve an orgasm.  Although intercrural sex is practised in relationships of…

When it comes to plastic surgery, no stone has been left unturned.  The designer vagina boom in the UK has seen it become one of the fastest-growing cosmetic surgery procedures, popularised by celebrities and pop culture influences like porn. What…

Are you curious to try a sexual fetish?  Many people want to exhilarate their sex life by exploring something new.  But, not everyone knows where to start or what they would find particularly pleasurable. For those that don’t know, a…

If you love anal sex, then you need to add pegging to your sex bucket list right now. Currently, pegging is becoming increasingly popular, with various sex experts claiming it to be one of the latest bedroom trends. According to…

You’ve likely seen it in movies or experienced it in real life – whatever the scenario, it can’t be denied that French kissing is one of the most thrilling aspects of a relationship, particularly in the early stages.  What is…

So, you’re interested in swinging? Lucky for you, it’s more common than you think. According to our own data, swinging was one of the most searched fetishes in the UK. What is a swinger? Reasons why people swing How to…

Whether you’ve cheated on your partner or have been cheated on, you know it can be devastating.  Unfortunately, cheating within a relationship is not uncommon, with a 2015 survey conducted by YouGov revealing that 1 in 5 British adults have…

Does the thought of getting frisky in the backseat of a car appeal to you?  If the answer is yes, you’re not the only one, with our research revealing that outdoor sex was the 9th most searched fetish in the…

1 in 3 Brits use emojis in their dating profiles  The most popular emoji is the Red Heart (❤️), with 71% using this emoji on their dating profile The Splashing Sweat (💦) and Tongue (👅) emojis, often associated with sexting,…

Former escort, TV expert, and Sex Coach & Hypnotherapist Rebecca Dakin, shares advice on how to become sex-positive in modern society. Have a comment for Rebecca? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: What does it mean to be sex-positive?…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: Can I have sex on…

As lockdown restrictions continue to gradually lift and summer approaches, flings, casual hookups and relationships are bound to bloom. If you’re single, a first date can be pretty nerve-racking and tricky to get just right. As the old adage goes,…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: As a woman, I masturbate…

While no relationship is perfect, it’s fair to say that we all desire a healthy one. But many of us find ourselves in relationships that are dissatisfying or detrimental to our emotional and mental wellbeing. What is a healthy relationship?…

Have you ever heard of Kunyaza?  If not, it’s an African lovemaking experience dedicated to female pleasure. As natural as orgasms are, many women struggle to reach that peak spot. According to traditional African cultures, this exotic sex secret might…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: Is…

Increasingly, film productions are specialising in certain themes and social issues aimed at different groups. And for the LGBT community, it’s no different. Many LGBT films highlight different stories on queer relationships, family life, and social stigmas and challenges that…

Thanks to the digital era, sex is right at our fingertips.  A hybrid of phone sex, sending dirty messages or “sexting”, can spice up your relationship, or tease a potential new lover from a distance. What is sexting? Sexting is…

When there’s a slump in our sex life, it’s common for many of us to seek medical sexual stimulants, like Viagra, to help boost our libido. But these types of pharmaceutical solutions can sometimes result in possible side effects.  For…

Want to know whether you and your partner are sexually compatible? There’s no denying a satisfactory sex life constitutes a happier and healthier relationship. Whether it be matched libidos, sexual compatibility primarily boils down to sharing sexual beliefs, preferences, desires…

Are you looking for a sugar daddy?  The reasons why some people look to become sugar babies vary. In the UK, there is an increasing demand for women and men opting for the “sugar baby” lifestyle to fund their spending…

Ever struggled with knowing how to flirt? If you’re socially awkward or not a natural-born flirter, showing someone that you are romantically attracted to them can be difficult.  It’s perfectly normal to feel nervous around someone you fancy. Luckily, there…

Men and women are very different when it comes to getting turned on.  Many guys may not admit this, but knowing how to turn a girl on isn’t always a walk in the park.  The good news is that there…

Are you part of the BDSM world? Or are you looking to incorporate a little kink into your bedroom activities? A BDSM survey conducted by sex-brand LELO revealed that over 80% of participants have tried spanking and being tied up,…

Ever wondered how open relationships work or thought about having one yourself? The truth is, unconventional relationships are becoming more and more mainstream in society, with many couples wondering if this type of arrangement could work for them.  What is…

Like many people, you have probably heard of ‘Kama Sutra’ before. Although a lot has been said about this ancient practice, very few understand its true purpose.  Contrary to popular belief, the Kama Sutra is not just the go-to bible…

Is your sex life stuck in a rut? Routine sex although not bad, can become unexciting after a while. If you’re looking to try new things to spice up your sex life, then you may want to consider introducing sex…

Not all great sex is spontaneous. For some people to get aroused, sexual activity leading up to sexual penetration is required. If done right, the build up to sex can be just a rewarding as the main event, which is…

  Do you know what triggers your arousal?  We all have erogenous zones, but everyone is unique. When it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure, the orgasmic sensations you feel in a particular area may not be the same for another…

With more and more of us turning to podcasts as a form of light relief, almost everyone has their favourite. When it comes to sex-related topics, finding an adult podcast that caters to you and your needs has never been…

Have you ever fantasised about having sex with more than one person at a time?  Traditionally, threesomes have often been portrayed as deviant within society.  However, the truth is they are a common fantasy for many, highlighted in our 2019…

Giving can just be as fun as receiving.  Whether you engage with oral sex prior to penetrative sex, or decide to make it the main event, oral sex can be a pleasurable and exciting act to participate in with your…

You’ve likely heard of tantric massage, but are you familiar with tantric sex? For those that may have heard of tantric sex, a common assumption is that it involves unique sex positions, and usually longer-lasting sex.  In reality, there are…

Are you curious about trying anal sex? You’re certainly not the only one. Although anal sex may have once been a taboo, over the years research has shown that it has become significantly more popular. A 2017 survey of over…

Moaning is the sexiest noise for 33% of men and 34% of women Silence in the bedroom is the top sex sound turn-off for 28% of men and 20% of women “Are you done?” Is the biggest turn-off for 24%…