How to set up a sex line

Working for a phone sex line is a popular part of the sex work industry. You get the freedom to set your own hours and work from home, all while embracing your sexuality in an anonymous format.

But where should you begin?

You have two main options: creating your own sex line or working for an established one. We’ll walk you through both and provide some handy tips and alternatives.

Grab a pen and paper, and let’s get started! Here’s everything you need to know about setting up a sex line.

Creating your own phone sex line

Creating your own sex line requires more upfront time and work. But it gives you more freedom and potentially more money in the long run.

The hardest part of creating your own sex line is raising an audience. It’s easier to attract customers if you’re already an influencer or prominent sex worker. If you’re completely new, you’ll have to spend time creating a website, setting up a payment system, and marketing yourself on social media.

The hard work is worth it, though. Owning your own sex line allows you to set your own hours and pay, and you can say no to any clients you don’t want to work with.

If you attract enough traffic, you can also start to employ other sex workers. This will make it easier to service more clients and allow you to take holidays without closing the business completely.

Factors to consider when setting up a sex line

There’s no one-size-fits-all route to setting up a sex line. But there are some factors you’ll always have to consider. Here are the main ones:

How clients will pay you – Most sex workers take payments via PayPal or other e-wallets. You’ll also want to consider how you charge them. Will you invoice them after the call? Or charge upfront for a set amount of time?
How the call will work – It’s important to avoid giving out your personal phone number. Instead, you should buy a work phone or contact clients through a calling service, such as Discord or Skype
Your niche – Like any type of sex work, it’s always a good idea to consider your niche. This could be girlfriend experience, dominatrix, kink, or any other subcategory of phone sex
Website and social media presence -To attract clients, you’ll need a website and social media presence. These will show the audience what you’re offering and prove that you’re a legitimate business

Before you start, take some time to research established independent phone sex businesses. How do the sex workers list their prices? What kind of calls do they offer? Use this information to guide your own business plan.

Working for an established phone sex line

Setting up a sex line takes time and investment. Sometimes, it’s not the right move just yet. So, if you’re interested in trying phone sex before making a business or simply want to skip the admin, joining an established line might be an easier route.

How to find a legitimate phone sex line

The first step in joining a phone sex line is finding a reputable company. There are plenty of phone sex operators online, but not all treat their workers fairly. Some pay peanuts, and others offer inconsistent work.

The best way to find a genuine line is to read what experienced phone sex operators think. You can find opinions and recommendations on sex worker blogs or in relevant forums (e.g., r/sexworkers).

Setting up a sex line with an established platform

Once you’ve found a popular phone sex platform or business, you should make an account and follow the instructions for setting up your profile.

Before you do, make a clear plan of how you’ll present yourself. This could be in alignment with your current sex worker image (if applicable), or it could be under a completely new name.

You should also consider whether you’ll offer standard phone sex services or if you’ll offer kinkier or fantasy-based ones. Being clear on these points will help you grow your audience faster and look more professional.

If the website you’ve chosen allows you to set your own pricing, make sure you base your rates on sex workers in the same niche. You don’t want to accidentally underprice yourself!

Alternative sex work options

If you’re still on the fence about setting up a sex line or becoming a phone sex operator, don’t stress. There are some similar alternatives you might find interesting:

1. Erotic audios

If you like the idea of dirty talk but aren’t so sure about talking to real people, erotic audio is a good option.

Many people create erotic audios which tell stories, involve kinks, or simply feature themselves getting off. These are posted online or on OnlyFans for others to enjoy. You can find free examples on r/AudioGoneWild. If you want to earn money, OnlyFans is a better option.

2. Steamy audio books

Similarly to erotic audio, you can also work with erotic writers and voice their work. This might be harder to get into if you don’t have prior acting experience, though.

3. Text sex lines

If you want to chat with real people but don’t want to use your voice, text sex lines are the next best option.

These are exactly what they sound like – places where punters pay to chat to sex workers via text. The pay is lower for these jobs. However, they’re easier to do while multitasking.

The takeaway

Setting up a sex line is no easy task, but it’ll be worth it when you’re running your own phone sex business and doing what you love.

Hopefully, this article has provided a helpful outline of the main ways to get started. Be patient and remember that it might take a few months to build traction. You can always say no if something doesn’t feel right!

Viva Team