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The comprehensive guide to teabagging sex

Did you know that the head of the penis alone has more than 4,000 nerve endings? This is not counting the nerve endings in the shaft and, of course, in the balls.

The scrotum actually has many more nerve endings than you might expect, making them very sensitive (any man who has been kicked in the balls would know this).

But what many people don’t know is that the balls can be a great source of male pleasure – this is where the sexual act of ‘teabagging’ comes in.

If you’ve never heard of teabagging before and are asking yourself, “What is teabagging exactly?”, keep reading to learn more.

What is teabagging and why do people love it?

Teabagging actually has nothing to do with tea bags.

Rather, it has to do with a man lowering his scrotum into the mouth of his partner for sexual pleasure. This requires the man to kneel or crouch over his partner’s face.

Teabagging is unconventional in the world of oral sex because it usually doesn’t involve much stimulation of the penis itself (although it can, in some cases).

The focus is all on the balls, which can open up a whole new world of pleasure for him, as this erogenous zone is loaded with very sensitive nerve endings.

Teabagging can translate very well into the realm of BDSM, particularly for those who enjoy humiliation play, though it’s generally great for healthy sexual exploration too.

Interesting fact: Teabagging originated in the world of video games, especially first-person shooters, where the in-game victor would repeatedly squat over the face of his defeated friend (or enemy).

What you need to know about teabagging positions

When it comes to teabagging sex, getting into the right position is often harder than it looks.

As mentioned before, this sex position traditionally involves the man lowering his scrotum into his partner’s mouth (or face, in general), so the man is pretty much always going to be on top.

Below are some key tips:

There are a few ways to go about teabagging, but starting with the sub on their back is a good start. This will allow the man to climb over the sub and position himself as he pleases
If your bed doesn’t have a lot of support or is very soft, the man may have a difficult time balancing over his partner’s head in a crouched position. If this is the case, try starting out on a sturdier (but not hard) surface, such as the floor. The man can squat over his partner’s face from the front, back, or side
The easiest position involves the man standing on his knees over the head of his partner. This will give him the most control and it will be easier to raise and lower himself over his partner. It will also prevent the man’s legs from getting too tired
Another position involves the man squatting over his partner rather than resting on his knees. This is a much more vulnerable position for the man, and it will give the sub a lot more access to the man’s balls (along with other areas). However, this squatting position can quickly get tiring, as he will need to use his leg muscles a lot more, so keep that in mind

There is no limit to what sex positions you can try for teabagging – and can even go as far as experimenting with Kama Sutra sex positions.

You’ll find that some positions may be more pleasurable than others for various reasons, such as giving the sub more access to the scrotum.

If you’d like more inspiration for teabagging positions, you can try some of the trending and most popular sex positions in the UK.

What to keep in mind when learning how to teabag

If you’ve never tried teabagging before, here are a few things to keep in mind so that you and your partner can have the most pleasurable experience.

Firstly, it’s important to understand that patience is key. Starting out and trying to find the right position can become frustrating at first, but it’s all part of the experience
If your partner is at the bottom in this sex position, your partner will virtually have no control. While this might be ideal for BDSM couples, you will still need to make sure that your partner is comfortable, as when teabagging, the sub might have a hard time breathing if the man shoves his whole scrotum into his partner’s mouth
When teabagging, it’s better to start slow. Both the man and his partner will find that using suction and gentle licking will produce a lot of pleasure. For BDSM couples, getting more serious and rough will be no problem after both parties have had enough time to get warmed up
You can spice up your teabagging sex session by incorporating sex toys, such as cock rings for extra stimulation. BDSM lovers can also experiment with BDSM sex toys
The sub should remember that a man’s balls are very sensitive. For that reason, don’t go in teeth-first or your partner may leap away from you like a frightened frog. Also, avoid doing it roughly right away or too suddenly, otherwise you might cause your male partner a lot of pain. The key is to start slow and tread softly

How to prepare for teabagging sex

In this guide to teabagging, you should already be aware that teabagging is a form of oral sex.

For that reason, the best way to prepare for this position is by taking a shower or bath (perhaps as a couple) beforehand for hygiene purposes, making teabagging sex a much more enjoyable experience for both parties involved.

But that’s not all. A man’s balls tend to be a bit colder than the rest of his body. This is how the body protects its sperm count since very hot temperatures (such as keeping a hot computer in your lap) can actually cause some fertility problems down the line.

By taking a warm (not hot) bath together, you can not only have a chance to get started on some foreplay, but the warm water will also warm up the man’s balls to a certain extent.

But what about protection? Alas, it isn’t really possible to bag up a man’s balls into a condom. Not only would this be uncomfortable for the man, but it likely wouldn’t work.

If you want to avoid skin-to-skin contact, you can try wrapping your partner’s balls in a clean plastic wrap or wear a dental dam.

Getting your partner to shave his balls is also a good tip unless you like them hairy. This can make teabagging much more enjoyable for both parties.

Safety for teabagging

One of the most important tips for teabagging is to have a safe word.

Those who are already familiar with the world of BDSM should already know about the importance of having a safe word.

For those who don’t know, a safe word is a non-sexual word that lets your partner know you want to stop and take a break.

It’s important to use a non-sexual word so your partner does not get confused. For example, when you scream “broccoli,” your partner would easily be able to recognise the safe word and not confuse it with anything sexual at the moment.

Try teabagging sex

Now that you know how to teabag, we bet you’re eager to try it out.

Teabagging sex is a kinky type of oral sex and is ideal for giving your partner’s balls a bit of extra love.

Since its roots lie in humiliation, it can be ideal for BDSM couples. It can also be great for those wanting to experiment in the bedroom and looking for a thrilling sexual experience.

If you’re a man seeking the teabagging experience, book an escort today.

Viva Team