Gangbang is a very intense fantasy that many people share. And if you’re a sex worker, there’s a high chance that one of your clients will eventually request a gangbang with other people.
While you are free to choose what you do and don’t do with your clients as a sex worker, there are many people that don’t recommend accepting gangbang requests from clients. There are many reasons for this, and most of them revolve around safety.
- What is a gangbang?
- Do sex workers get gangbang requests?
- 3 reasons you shouldn’t take gangbang requests as a sex worker
- What to do if you get a gangbang request?
- Things to look out for and consider when you get a gangbang request
- Where to get help if something goes wrong
To give you a clearer picture, we’ll go through three key reasons you shouldn’t try a gangbang with clients as a sex worker. On top of that, we’ll discuss what a gangbang is, how to handle gangbang requests, and things to consider or look out for if you’re considering satisfying a gangbang request.
Read on to learn more.
What is a gangbang?
A gangbang is a sex act wherein one person is the sole centre of attention and sexual activity of several people. Most of the time, women are the focus of a gangbang, with multiple men having sex with one woman at the same time. However, there are many forms of gangbangs that cater to different genders and sexualities as well, which is important to remember.
While gangbangs have become very popular through the pornography industry, it’s a pretty common type of sex party in the swinger community as well. It isn’t uncommon to find gangbang sex parties wherein multiple people have sex with one person and make them the centre of everyone’s attention.
Gangbangs differ from other group sex acts like a foursome, threesome, or an orgy as there is only one person at the centre of all sexual activities. By contrast, orgies and threesomes usually involve everyone’s involvement, with no singular person as the centre of attention.
Do sex workers get gangbang requests?
Sex workers have to deal with a range of requests from their clients. Clients may request sex workers to satisfy certain fetishes from a foot fetish to a golden shower. And quite often, clients also ask sex workers if they can bring a friend into the situation.
Some people will request threesomes, and some will request foursomes. But occasionally, a person may request a full gangbang wherein the client brings other people to have sex with the sex worker.
In these situations, it’s important to charge everyone involved separately, as gangbangs can be physically and emotionally demanding. That said, we don’t recommend that sex workers accept gangbang requests, and we’ll discuss the reasons why in the next section.
3 reasons you shouldn’t take gangbang requests as a sex worker
As a sex worker, it’s possible that you’ll get a gangbang request from your client or clients. And while this presents an opportunity to earn some money, we highly recommend declining these requests. In this section, we’ll explain why.
Safety
The primary reason we advise against accepting gangbang requests is the safety concern. If you’re a female-identifying sex worker, there’s a high chance that your client’s gangbang request involves bringing in more men to have sex with you at the same time.
This provides a very unsafe situation for the sex worker. Gangbangs in pornography are scripted, and all the movements and actions are pre-determined and discussed by all parties, even if you don’t see them.
There are many people that don’t understand that real life doesn’t work like pornography. Clients during a gangbang may cross a line or boundary because it seems like it’s completely fine in a porn film.
It’s harder to screen multiple clients
Another concern when dealing with a gangbang request is that you will have to screen multiple clients. Screening individual clients is hard enough to begin with, as there are many things to consider. And when there are multiple clients in the same room, accurately screening them can be very hard.
You never know what will happen
There’s a lot of uncertainty when accepting gangbangs, and you cannot account for everything. Accepting gangbang requests can put sex workers in an uncertain and unsafe situation. It’s very important to prioritise your safety as a sex worker, which is why we don’t advise people in the industry to accept their client’s gangbang requests.
What to do if you get a gangbang request?
While we advise against it, the decision is always up to you. So, if a client comes to you with a gangbang request, you can decide whether to accept it or not. Again, we mentioned that accepting these requests can be fairly unsafe and put you in an undesirable position as a sex worker, which is why it might be best to decline the request right away.
That said, if you are considering a gangbang request, there are a couple of things that you will need to consider. And before making a decision on the request, we highly suggest going through all these considerations as thoroughly as possible.
Things to look out for and consider when you get a gangbang request
The factors that you should consider if you get a gangbang request include the following:
Number of people
The first factor is how many people the client plans on bringing in. There’s no definite number of people required for a gangbang. So, a gangbang can mean as little as four people in a room or 15 people. Before accepting or even considering the request, make sure that you know how many people will be in the potential gangbang.
Screening
Screening is very important for any sex worker, and it’s especially important in a gangbang. If possible, make sure to carefully screen every individual joining the gangbang. And if anything seems off or sketchy, it’s best to call it off.
Signs of abuse
One of the things you should always look out for when you get a gangbang request is if the person or people are exhibiting signs of an abuser. It can be hard to detect an abuser just by looking at them, which is why we don’t recommend accepting these requests. But if there’s one thing that you always need to look out for, it’s whether or not the person seems to have a history of abuse.
In these situations, always trust your gut. If something feels off, you don’t have to continue with the request, and you can decline it on the spot.
Location
If you’re really considering the request, then make sure to choose a safe and accessible location for the scene. You want to be in a familiar area so that you can make your way out if something feels off or wrong.
Where to get help if something goes wrong
If something goes wrong during a gangbang or when a client asks if you will consider one, then contact the local authorities right away. We recommend calling authorities as they will be able to respond quickly and provide you with the help you need.
There are many people with a gangbang fantasy. And while you mostly see them in porn, gangbangs do happen in real life, especially in swinger communities.
However, if you’re a sex worker and a client requests a gangbang, we highly advise you to decline the request. Gangbangs with clients as a sex worker can be very dangerous, and there are too many variables to consider.
So, to keep yourself as safe as possible, it might be best to say no to any gangbang request that a client sends your way.
