The first day at any job can be nerve-racking. But going in with the lowdown on what to expect and what to do can reduce anxiety and make the overall experience much more fulfilling.
If you’ve already decided to work as an escort but haven’t met any clients yet, you might be feeling a little nervous about your first gig. This is completely normal. However, you don’t have to turn up without an idea of what to expect.
Today, we’re focusing on what to expect on your first job and we’ve gathered the top tips and tricks to stay safe and impress your client while you’re there.
Keep reading to find out more.
Escort work can be defined as providing companionship to clients for a set fee or hourly price.
The actual role of an escort can differ depending on bookings, but it typically covers spending time with clients (such as attending restaurants or getting coffee) or offering personal services (such as intimate cuddling or sexual services).
Though escort work can cover sexual services, it doesn’t strictly mean sex work.
For example, some escorts accompany clients to events or keep them company while at dinners. Some escorts even provide cuddling sessions, giving non-sexual physical touch to clients who want a more intimate connection.
Escort services can tip into sex work, where an escort will provide companionship and sexual services. Not all escorts provide this and don’t have to. However, it’s a common inclusion for many escorts.
Ensure you’re clear about the services on offer before you meet up with your client. This can avoid confusion or frustration during your session.
Like any job, you should consider the pros and cons before booking your first escort job. These are the top points you should think about if you’re interested in becoming an escort:
When preparing for your first day as an escort, don’t skip mental and emotional preparations. This job can take a toll on you physically and mentally, so preparing well is essential to your health and success in the profession.
Boundaries are vital to escorting. These rules keep you protected, and they’re also helpful when managing client expectations.
To set clear boundaries, you need to be transparent from the get-go. For example, communicate openly about what you will and won’t do from the start of client interactions. This way, you can see if your values align and no one wastes their time.
Be consistent with your boundaries. If you’re firm in your expectations, clients will be less likely to push you or ask for more. This creates mutual respect and a better professional relationship.
Use direct language. Asserting boundaries feels awkward, especially when you’re doing it for the first time. However, clear and direct language is the best way to go. That’s right — no euphemisms allowed.
Be ready for negotiations. Clients might try to negotiate, so set a comfort zone which you will and won’t pass. If their requests leave this zone, be ready to tell them no.
Knowing relevant safety measures is crucial, so don’t start your first day without them. Here are the top safety tips all escorts should know:
Pleasing your client and getting good reviews is central to life as an escort. While you want to have a good time, you also need to think about their feelings, too.
Be upfront and ask about their desires. This way, you can work towards fulfilling their fantasies and ensuring they have a memorable experience.
Escorts should also regularly check in with clients. Frequent communication helps you understand whether they’re enjoying the experience, and it’ll also open up space for them to tell you about their wants and needs.
Always check for consent. Both parties should provide enthusiastic consent, and without this, no sexual or intimate acts should take place.
Staying positive at work is a challenge in all industries, including for escorts and sex workers. It can be especially tough to stay positive as an escort due to negative stigma and stereotypes. However, there are some tips to ensure you have a fulfilling career:
Not many people realise it, but business marketing and personal branding is a large aspect of working as an escort.
Creating a personal brand that outlines your niche, services, and price points will help you attract your ideal clients to you. Many escorts use websites and social media accounts to build trust and establish a reputation with clients, thus allowing them to make bookings and find repeat clients.
You can even generate a logo, fake name, and services list to provide an ultra-professional experience. Remember, the client interaction starts before you meet in real life.
A support system is a network of trustworthy people or other escorts that can offer practical advice and emotional support.
Meeting other escorts is easy thanks to the internet. Forums and communities allow easy access to like-minded people where you can discuss work, issues, and shared interests. A popular place to chat with other escorts and sex workers is r/SexWorkers.
Alternatively, you can also build a local community for in-person connections. Charities or non-profit organisations in your area are great resources for finding close-by escorts. You could also connect with local escorts online and see if they’d want to meet for an in-person support group. Don’t be too pushy, though. Respect other escorts’ boundaries.
Whether you’re getting ready for your first meeting or looking for some extra tips on how to stay safe as an escort, we hope this blog has refreshed your toolbox with some new information. Always remember to use consent and regularly check in with your client to ensure a fulfilling service and a safe experience for you.
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