Sexuality and sexual well-being are deeply personal topics that everyone should take the time to explore while feeling safe and secure. However, without comprehensive sex education, it can be challenging to know where to start.
At Vivastreet, we want everyone to feel happy and fulfilled, and with Pride Month in full swing, we want to help readers learn more about the LGBTQ+ community and how to explore their sexual identities. From learning about communication and consent to finding providers who offer an affirming environment for exploration, we’re covering all bases.
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When exploring sexuality, members of the LGBTQ+ community often face unique challenges that heteronormative people don’t.
Knowing and understanding these challenges can help you navigate them, especially if you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community:
Much of society’s structure and sexual education favours heterosexual partnerships. This leaves LGBTQ+ folks without education and ways to explore their own sexuality, which can stem to isolation and confusion.
To counter these challenges and barriers, we must continue to raise awareness and educate people on the LGBTQ+ experience.
When you think of an escort, what image comes to mind? Is it a woman being hired by a straight man? This is the most common image society depicts of escorts.
But it’s not always the case. LGBTQ+ escorts are more common than ever; many are educated on relevant issues and strive to create a safe space for exploration.
Explore well-known escort websites and directories if you’re looking for an inclusive escort. Social media apps are also good places to look for LGBTQ+ sex workers. Read the providers’ bios and look for indications they work with same-sex or queer individuals. A clear and polite message can clear up any misunderstandings if in doubt.
If you choose to work with an escort while exploring your sexuality, first of all, congratulations! This is an exciting step to take on the journey to self-discovery.
Secondly, there are additional considerations you need to make before you get started. For example, what are your personal boundaries? If there’s anything you don’t want to do, tell your provider. It’s also helpful to know your own desires and to let your provider know your expectations.
You should also actively listen and respect your provider’s boundaries. Boundaries are there to ensure everyone’s comfortable and having a good time. If your provider says no, don’t keep hinting or pushing them.
Consent must be given before the session starts, which must come from both parties. Remember, active consent is sexy!
Escorts who work with LGBTQ+ individuals provide safe spaces for clients free from society’s stigma and challenges.
This often involves clear communication and discussions beforehand. These chats will detail consent, expectations, and the client’s desires. This information helps escorts tailor the services to the client’s needs and pleasure. The escort will also use this information to avoid any triggering service that may ruin the mood for the client.
Escorts should also know relevant LGBTQ+ sex education to ensure the physical acts are safe and pleasurable. They can also use this practical information to help clients learn how queer sex looks. Of course, there’s no “right” way to have sex. However, they can use their experience to teach and help clients explore.
Consent is paramount to any escort relationship, including LGBTQ+ relationships. Without active and enthusiastic consent from everyone involved, no sexual acts should happen. All parties must know the expectations and plan for the session and agree before starting.
Professional escorts will know how to navigate these conversations early into the relationship. If your provider skips this, it’s a red flag, and you should look for another.
See Vivastreet’s complete A-Z guide to consent here.
LGBTQ+ escort services provide a platform for exploring your sexuality without judgement or fear.
However, some steps must be taken to ensure your well-being and safety throughout the experience:
If you’re LGBTQ+, sex-positive resources and organisations can be helpful for education and exploring. In the UK, many organisations champion LGBTQ+ rights and produce beneficial online resources that are free and easy to access.
Some of the best LGBTQ+ organisations include:
Find more information about LGBTQ+ charities and organisations here.
Alongside the practical safety and well-being tips above, you should also look after your mental and emotional well-being while exploring. Self-care strategies can help you reduce stress and anxiety from challenges or new experiences.
Top self-care tools include:
A consistent self-care strategy helps you minimise emotional worries over time. However, you can also work with a professional if you want expert advice. Sex positive-therapists and counsellors with an LGBTQ+ specialisation are good if you want to talk to an unbiased individual.
Whether you’re just thinking of exploring your sexuality or ready to take the next step, use the information in this blog to make positive and safe decisions. Creating an exciting and fulfilling sex life is vital for everyone, including LGBTQ+ individuals.
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