How often do you feel nervous? Is it something you feel from time to time, or do you experience anxiety every day?
As it’s Mental Health Awareness Week, we’re shifting our focus to sex work and anxiety. From looking at what anxiety actually means to pinpoint common situations that make sex workers feel anxious, our mission is to raise awareness and open up the conversation about mental health among sex workers.
Scroll down to learn how sex work and anxiety intersect.
Mental Health Awareness Week happens every May from the 13th to the 19th. This special week was created to raise awareness for mental health issues and to remove the stigma around speaking out about your mental health.
Anxiety is defined as a feeling of unease (e.g., worry or fear). This feeling can be mild or severe enough to affect your day-to-day life.
Everyone will experience anxiety at some point in their lives. However, sometimes people find it hard to control their worries, and anxiety becomes a symptom of a larger condition.
Within the mental health spaces, anxiety as a condition is referred to as generalised anxiety disorder (GAD). This makes you feel anxious in general rather than worried about one specific event.
Those with GAD tend to feel anxious more than relaxed, and they will feel anxious even if the event they are worrying about is very unlikely or illogical.
Though anxiety is a mental health condition, it can present physical symptoms. Here are some of the most common ones:
Sex workers face different challenges to other careers. Here are some situations and factors that may lead to anxiety for sex workers:
In many careers, appearing busy is almost a status symbol. Telling others you’re fully booked or overloaded by clients shows you’re a successful sex worker. However, rather than showing your skills, this culture actually leads to burnout and higher levels of anxiety.
If you find yourself pushing your boundaries and taking on more work, take a step back and monitor your anxiety levels. Overbooking and overworking yourself will only lead your mental and physical health to a bad place.
Of course, you should make financially responsible decisions and prioritise making enough money. However, if you can take a step back to give yourself a break and indulge in self-care, you should.
Another way anxiety can manifest for sex workers is nervousness before seeing clients. This goes for new and experienced sex workers. Even if you have years under your belt, anxiety can still cause mental and physical symptoms before a session.
When meeting and screening clients, listening to your gut reaction and looking for clues that the client may not be worth the effort is essential. However, when you have anxiety, you might feel nervous for all clients.
To reduce your anxiety before client meetings, check in to see how you feel. Some breath work or mindfulness exercises can do wonders for this. You may also want to build some physical exercise into your daily routine, as this is also powerful for reducing anxiety.
However, if you find that none of the usual anti-anxiety tips and tricks do anything to calm your mind, it might be a sign that you need to talk with a medical professional or simply that the career isn’t a fit for you.
Sex workers and escorts might experience anxiousness about people they know in real life finding their content. Whether your escorting profile or Only Fans page, this is a common fear and one you can take practical steps against.
For example, you can use a fake name or alias for your work. You can also keep your personal details a secret, even with clients you’ve been seeing for years. Investing in a secure webcam and extra data security measures is also a good idea to keep yourself protected.
While rare, unfortunately, people you know might find your profile, and there is a small possibility of your content being leaked. The more we raise awareness about sex work and normalise the career, the more accepting people will be.
Any self-employed person will tell you they worry about making enough money for the month. And this is no different for sex workers.
It’s critical to acknowledge that quiet seasons come and go. You should also take control of your financial situation with money-saving tips for a secure financial future. The earlier you start investing in your finances, the easier it will be to ride through slow months where clients seem to be on a different planet.
Overcoming anxiety in an instant isn’t easy. But there are some practice strategies you can take to lessen the overwhelming emotions. These include:
These may not all work for you. However, trying out different strategies is critical until you find one that fits.
Many sex workers will feel nervous around the situations above at least once or twice in their careers. However, if your anxieties are going beyond one event, causing distress, or affecting your daily life, it might be time to work with a medical professional.
When you see a medical professional or GP for anxiety, they will ask you questions about your worries, assess your symptoms, and potentially refer you to a specialist for further treatment.
Part of speaking out about mental health is creating a more positive future for sex workers. The more we talk about anxiety and share resources, the more we can prioritise health and ensure a community focused on well-being. Forward this page to a friend to spread the word.
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