I am a married man and would love to meet someone in a similar position as myself, that is you will be married or in a relationship and the spark has gone from your life and I'd like to try and fire some excitement back into it.

I am talking about texting, chatting and some flirting.…I want to feel those butterflies when you contact me. If we click then meeting up would be great however, this would only work if we are both very discrete and with the same attitude about not wanting to change each others circumstances or life.

Ideally you'd be around my age and close by or relatively easy to travel to.

I am very bright, humorous and very well travelled so I guarantee I will be an interesting, entertaining but very secret friend.

I am also a veteran so my moral compass may be slightly skewed but I really am a gentleman.

I am 5' 8", well built and trying my best to look after myself however, I have the usual lumps, bumps and bruises of someone my age. I care about the way I present myself, the way I dress and smell.

If any of this this sounds interesting...even slightly, I do hope to hear from you.

Please note my age and the fact I am married before you contact me.

You can obviously text or email me, and we can arrange a call to verify I'm a real person and more importantly prove that I am who I say I am. Please do not call out of the blue as I just won't answer.

Pat xx